Now a days, there are lot of women which I have met who remained single after having been separated from their ex-es. They have different reasons why until then they still haven't met the right one for them.
Well in my case, there are a lot of friends who always asked why I preferred not to marry another man. Off course my answer was just simple. I am now happy and contented with what I have. I don't need a husband just to make me feel complete because simply he's not the one who can make it. My children are the most important for me who have made me feel complete. I just wanted to focus my attention with them. I don't want to have problems when there's clashes between my kids and him. I just wanted my kids to feel secure that there's no body else will snatch my attention from them. And lastly, I don't want to waste my time because you wouldn't really know if how your relationship with him will go through in the future. And then right after you realized that something between you is not worthed to fight for, you'll again break up with him. So what for? You will only waste your time for something you don't know if it has a future or none. In additional, my age is not young enough to fall in love with somebody else again. Well, that was all for me...Everyone of us specially women has our own perception when it comes to opening up your heart to a new one. I am not saying my word is final because only God knows what comes in the future. But for now, it's not actually my priority :)
Well in my case, there are a lot of friends who always asked why I preferred not to marry another man. Off course my answer was just simple. I am now happy and contented with what I have. I don't need a husband just to make me feel complete because simply he's not the one who can make it. My children are the most important for me who have made me feel complete. I just wanted to focus my attention with them. I don't want to have problems when there's clashes between my kids and him. I just wanted my kids to feel secure that there's no body else will snatch my attention from them. And lastly, I don't want to waste my time because you wouldn't really know if how your relationship with him will go through in the future. And then right after you realized that something between you is not worthed to fight for, you'll again break up with him. So what for? You will only waste your time for something you don't know if it has a future or none. In additional, my age is not young enough to fall in love with somebody else again. Well, that was all for me...Everyone of us specially women has our own perception when it comes to opening up your heart to a new one. I am not saying my word is final because only God knows what comes in the future. But for now, it's not actually my priority :)
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