STREET CHILDREN: A HOPE OF THE PEOPLE? OR A NUISANCE TO SOCIETY? WHERE ARE THEY BEING CONSIDERED?

Where do you think a homeless child should be considered.....a hope of the people? ....or a nuisance to a soceity? Our world today is currently populated by lots of homeless child and still continuously counting. And obviously, some of them are being abandoned by their irresponsible parent. Study shows that a large part of a homeless child population is a product of teens who got pregnant at their early age which resulted to having  lack of knowledge about the responsibilities and obligations they were about to face after. They have no idea on how they could raise and support their child that`s why most of them have abandoned their child instead of having it aborted while still in their womb. Some has placed them in an orphanage and some are being aborted and not given a chance to live.

I just got being nailed on the thought that why would they prefer to abandon innocent being instead of havig someone who can adopt and raise their children and can give them a better life. I may not be called perfectly responsible parent but at least I never deprived them of their chances to live.

I always got my heart melting whenever I see those homeless and unfortunate innocents who beg for alms. They work all by themselves alone just to have something to buy for a food and support their daily living while I was thinking that these young ones deserves to live comfortably and get their right to have better education. I just gave them a count of a penny left in my pocket and them food because that's the least I could do. If only I can give them the best life they deserve I wont have a second thought but I must admit that eventhough how much I'd want to.....I simply can't because my wage was just enough to support my family. I just can't afford to just pass by and ignore these less fortunate people for they don't deserve to bear this kind of life on the street simply because of their irresponsible selfish parents. 

BABY CARE AND DEVELOPMENT CHART

We all know that baby`s life is just so simple.From the time they were born, the only things they knew was just to eat, drink milk, cry, and sleep. The only way on how they communicate with us was just to cry out loud whenever they feel something bad. And as time passes by, you would recognize how baby undergoes changes from their physical development, communication, the food they eat and from formula or breastfeed milk to solid foods. Off course you will always love to catch every moment they create their first act and sound.

Here is a complete baby care chart to guide you on how to understand their needs and changes.

What to do when baby holds breath deeply while crying

I have a 10 months old nephew who started to hold his breath while he cries. I thought he will only do that for a second but I panicked when he turned blue and was about to pass out because he dropped his both shoulders down and was about to fell asleep. My mother pressed his stomach on hold waiting for the air to kick back in. It took us 5 seconds before it became successful. I opened the situation when we went to a doctor for consultation and said it was just normal on most of the babies when they got hurt and can`t explain the pain so they just intend to hold their breath as their way to tell us how they feel.Though it is scary and horrible, might be something we should not ignore when it happens but should not be alarmed as babies will grow out of this phase when they become older.

How I discipline my child

I am a cool mom. And I discipline my son in a diplomatic way because I believe that if we only know how to analyze our child`s current situation, we will be able to find out how we can make them listen and understand on every advices that we say. " Hindi natin sila kailangan pilitin pero kelangan lang natin ipanawa sa kanila kung ano ang pinagdadaanan nila at kung ano ang posibilidad na maging negatibong resulta sa bawat pagkakamaling kanilang nagawa." It is important that we advice them and talk to them by heart.  

How to understand your child`s behavior?

I may not be a perfect parent for my child and for anyone else but I believe that only parents can do and understand our child`s behavior. It is important for us  parents to know exactly what they are going through.

Based on my own experience as a mother, I have learned so much and still learning until then on how to treat your kids on different ways. How to discpline them, how you can make them listen to every advices you say, or how you can make them understand that you are just doing everything for their own good. But the only keyword for this are the words..LISTEN...FEEL...and .....UNDERSTAND.

We need to remember that we were once a kid and as we grow old our interests and horizons changes. Like us, kids are also born different. Not all kids are of the same attitude and interests.