Kalayaan,karapatan at katahimikan

Mahirap bang intindihin na may simpleng tao lang na katulad ko na ayaw sa kahit na anumang argumento at nananatili na lamang tahimik upang makaiwas sa gulo at mabuhay nalng ng payapa? Iniisip agad ng iba na ako ay mahina at mangmang kaya ako walang imik at tikom nalng ang bibig sa twing may argumento. Hindi ba pwedeng ayaw lang ng kahit anong gulo kaya ganun ay gusto lang mabihay ng tahimik? Kapag nangatwiran ay ikae pa ang masama. At bakit ba may mga bagay na nga na pinanatiling lihim upang maiwasan ang gulo at maling pghuhusga ngunit pilit pa rin ibinunyag ng ibang tao para lang ipamuka sa iyo na ikaw ay mahina at may mababang integridad at ang masaklap pa nito ay gawa ng iyong sariling pamilya .... Sana lang ay nirespetoan lang nila angbkatahimikan ko at buhay ko dahil hindi ako katulad ng isang taong akma sa kanilang panghuhusga.
Hindi naman lahat ng tahimik ay mahina at mangmang sapagkat maaring kami ay sadyang may mabuting dahilan at hindi dapat husgahan ng ganun ka bilis dahil kahit gaano katagal at gaano man ka close ay hindi pa rin nakakakilala ng lubos sa akin.

REASONS WHY MOST WOMEN PREFFERED TO STAY SINGLE AFTER THEIR SEPARATION

Now a days, there are lot of women which I have met who remained single after having been separated from their ex-es. They have different reasons why until then they still haven't met the right one for them.

LIFE and TIME

This is the time when I got a few hours to meditate about all that  I missed so much and all that I regret and failed to do. I was making my nephew Jared to fall fast asleep  when I started to remember things from the past. Upon gently staring at Jared`s eyes, I came to think that if my spirit of motherhood would have been awakened since I became a mother, maybe my daughter and I could have won her fight between life and death. If only I could turn back time I will do everything despite all the trials which I need to surpass just to be able to help and give my daughter a lifetime chance to breathe conveniently and live happily. It was 3 months and a half since I did my latest visit to my daughter`s grave. 

WHAT TO DO WHEN A LOT OF PEOPLE KEEPS ON BULLYING AND INSULTING AROUND

I must admit that I was the best example for this type of situation because I am really a big big woman and  it has been marked on my past that  a lot of damn person was teasingly shouting at me " TABACHOY!" and they even called me at my office just to insult me through the whole day. I was affected that much because I wasn't able to perform my work well and was about to cry at the end of the day. Alet my friend was all the while at my side to comfort me and  inspire me always. That was the event that  had made me opt to loose weight and develop my personality by gaining more friends and involving myself to social gatherings, joining back to work, doing a lot of massive workouts for 2 hours everyday while on a strict low calorie diet with no rice. and a lot that has kept me busy as I haven't really noticed that time has flown fast.

FOR THE BOYS: CATCHING UP A GIRLS INTEREST AND ATTENTION

Are you tired of trying different ways on how to hook up a girl`s interest on you? Tired of being unfortunate on courtship to a girl you like? Well, I`m not an expert on  that but I think you have landed on the right page because I can give you a piece of advice to understand what a girl wants and the things you need to do.

REALIZING THE IMPORTANCE OF LIFE AND EVERYONE AROUND

It`s already morning at 3:30 am when I woke up to fix all the things needed by my son and my niece upon going to school. When they were both picked by their school bus, I sat on my sofa and came to think about what we have been through on the past years and how simple things became so important and the value of having everyone around. I don`t know why all those thoughts came into my mind and I`m not convinced when I think that maybe I`m just afraid that one day I might find myself living alone.

Everyone knows how I became so hard headed and rebellious person during my college days that`s why I became pregnant at an early age of 18. I just want to feel independent with all my decisions during those times but never thought about the accountabilities I might have when I failed. I always tell my parents that no matter how hard they do upon preaching me, it will just pass on my ears and come out on the other. I wasn`t   able to finish my degree in nursing because I got failed with one of my major subject. I decided to shift on a different course on other school but there I`ve met the father of my children. We`ve done our civil wedding after 8 years of being together. But 3 years more had passed after the wedding when we finally got separated. We`ve been having problems beforehand regarding our deal with my in-laws, individual differences and more personal things. We`ve fought for it in our 10 years of marriage but we failed. Our love yielded 2 loving and kind children namely Mike Joseph and + Elyza Angel but my daughter angel died 6 years ago because of Acute Pneumonia and she got a respiratory cardiac arrest which resulted to multiple organ failure. Much of the years has passed but I still felt hurt every time I remembered about her difficulties. All I can do was to close my eyes and pray. I know I have let her go because I know that is all she needs to feel and live free even on the after life.

Now, after several years of struggle, I came back to life again. I applied for my very first job because I haven`t got any since I graduated from my two years of college after I gave birth to my first born child. I got lucky because I got hired as a call center agent for a U.S, based account. I have also been to a lot of telemarketing jobs after my end-of-contract on my first. Now I feel I have a lot of weapons to survive and support my son Mike Joseph and pay all my debts but after 4 years of work, our account has been dissolved and the company had closed.

I have decided to vary my path of life on a different career line but it was not a success. Three years has passed since my last job and still I remain unemployed. I got busy on a thing called blog  but off course it all started from a scratch but after 2 years of constructing it I can now feel better when it started to show me some figures. It`s not that much by I know somehow, someday when I have learn everything on how to maintain it, success will come on my way.

I told myself that I should not remain jobless. Need an alternative source of income while I wait for my blog site to generate more traffic at large cost and more figures. What if there are no parents, brothers or sisters that will hand out a help on me and my son because they are somewhere far doing their obligations on their own life now. I told myself that I should not remain like this. I still have my son who needs my support and I don`t want to forsake him. He`s the only important one I still have . Now I set myself to implement my plan for my goal. I don`t want to be pessimistic.

WHO TO BLAME FOR A CRIME EXISTENCE

I don`t know why crime needs to exist in this whole wide world that most of young ones are the very much affected. Those worldly feelings such as jealousy, selfishness, greediness, crave for money or pot of gold, robberies and worldly desires and more are what we call evil roots that cause millions of inhuman acts today.

 I believe that the outcome of every lives were simply the result of how we were being raised by our parents or the environment that we have grown up with. Misunderstanding and miscommunication can sometimes lead to a  destruction of a person`s life. But, what are really the reasons why someone is strangling his life to making crimes?.

2012-DRAGON YEAR....PEOPLE AND THEIR LUCK

I understand that a lot of people are now thinking about their new year resolution including me as we welcome the fast approaching YEAR OF THE DRAGON-YEAR 2012. Chinese astrologers believed that whoever was born under the dragon year is said to be sharing some characteristics  like innovative, quick-tempered, self-assured, passionate, brave and enterprising. Restraints extinguished their imaginative gleams or flashes that is completely prepared to burst and shine brilliantly into life. So they always love to feel unrestricted.

People who were born under the year of the dragon are mostly who succeed at the top. Concern to help others is their great pleasure, but their pride frequently retard them from receiving identical sort of assistance from others.People under year of the dragon is said to be kind and generous. Those traits are the one making them gain more attraction from friends and others.

LIFE SIMPLY MATTERS GOES PR 1 .................

Hmmmm.......its the end of the month again and still haven`t posted my last article yet because until then I was still thinking of what to post. I was planning to convert this site soon as a general information site   so everything you need from A to Z will just be right on your fingertip here. But for a while.....I just want to take this space to thank all the people who had inspired me to create and write blogs on my own site. And at last I got my first rank in Google at this time. They are so hard to please because it seems that they are very meticulous about every details on my posts. For an advise....they only want an original content and that`s the big key.

NETWORKEDBLOGS: LIFE SIMPLY MATTERS BY JOLYZALIEZEL.BLOGSPOT.COM GOES TOP 1 IN PERSONALITY IMPROVEMENT

The author Liezel Arcilla  just want to take this opportunity to thank everyone who kept on supporting  Life Simply Matters. It`s really an honor that this site and the content posted here has now been receiving a lot of support from its viewers and visitors. Others might find its quite boring but still a lot of thanks to them because they keep on coming back over and over to read the newest post. Since everything that was posted here are all based on the author`s  true to life experience, there are other people who can easily relate the stories in their real life. You can learn a lot of lessons from its content and hope that it could somehow help everyone in altering some points on all aspects of your personality to live a better life.

Just keep on coming back to keep you updated on the newest post concerning more personality improvement tips and inspiring stories in the next few days.God bless All!!! always.....:)

CHRISTMAS SEASON IS FAST APPROACHING

We`ll be counting 81 days from now  and Christmas will come. This is the season when we start to think about everything we could do to celebrate Christmas. Off course we are thinking about how much budget we should  save in order to have something to spend for food preparations, gift ideas, fun time, and many more

I MISS MY BABY SO MUCH! (recovering from the greatest pain in my life)

I really miss my baby so much !!! It was 5 years ago  when my daughter passed away due to acute bronchopneumonia. And though, years had passed and everything had changed but I can still feel the pain. And I believed that it is the greatest pain in my life. During those times, I just don`t know how I could bring back everything into life. The only thing that reminds me always is that ...I still have a son beside me who walks with me through good and hard times.


this is her picture when she was still four months old
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 It was really very hard for me to think of ways on how I can face the reality that she`s gone. There`s no minute of everyday that I never thought of her. Seeing her face smiling at me so sweetly with her angelic perfect beauty and watching her playing with her lips like playing a guitar as I hear the smooth and gentle